Teenagers Ask, "Save My Relationship"
Millions of teenagers around the world either call by phone, skype, text, email, blog, MSN or MySpace, Facebook or Twitter on the internet everyday pleading to "save my relationship".
It's HUGE for teenagers to get hooked up with a girlfriend or boyfriend nowadays.
It makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside and at times you act a little love sick and crazy.
The feeling of somebody else in love with you, worshiping the ground you walk on and treating you special every minute of the day is awesome.
Shortly after the period where teens gave their relationship the usual test drive, to see if things would work out, you both grow closer together as a couple and life was so sweet.
Hanging out together, showing each other off to your friends, life is all good.
As time moves on, the relationship suffers a few minor problems, a few ups and downs and the warm fuzzy, love sick feelings start to chill out and fade away.
However as the couples get more use to each other, the relationship for the long term, becomes more stable, staunch and long lasting.
But on the darker side of a relationship, if things get pretty bad and everything goes pear shaped and cross eyed, despite the fact you love your partner or visa - versa and one of you don't feel the romance any longer, there's nothing you can do to make them feel the romantic connection ever again.
To make a relationship last for years, both people will need to work at it with dedication and true commitment.
If at some stage the relationship isn't happening, talk to your partner about it, unless your partner is psychic, they can't read your mind, so speak up.
You'll feel better, you got it off your chest and its been brought to their attention.
The most important thing is that you both share your opinions and don't hold back.
Stay focused on the issues at hand, delving in the past on what use to happen in the relationship and is no longer happening anymore, won't cut it, you'll probably kill the conversation and start an argument, so stick to whats happening right now.
Keep it real, some people appreciate the honesty.
Sometimes the down side to saving your relationship is you may have to consider that the best thing for the both of you is to remain as friends rather than a romantic pair.
The thing is you'll still save the friendship, just not the way you planned.
So if the relationships looks as though its heading over a steep cliff, do yourself a favor and set your partner free, stop sharing your love with everyone else and use whats left on yourself.
Looking after number one maybe the doctors prognosis for your situation.
Above all stay positive, keep your chin up, dust yourself off and move on.
We're all unique, what you may think, do and say, defines you as a person.
This relationships not going to be your last.
Always be yourself, don't be someone your not, just to make someone love you.
That's wrong, it will all turn to custard and in time you might realize that your partner is in love with the FAKE YOU and not the REAL YOU.
Long term relationships can last for years and that's because those happy couples know the secret, its communication, communication, communication.
By expressing your feelings and thoughts to your loved one, couples will increase their trust, intensify their love for each other and create the strongest bonds, that will last a entire lifetime.
Be true to who you are, should the person your with now isn't the person for you, that's cool.
Don't stress, you tried everything you could to make the relationship work.
Just remember that, that special someone is out there, somewhere, you''ll find them and when you do, they will love you for who you are for an entire lifetime, and the words - "save my relationship", will never cross your mind ever again, you can bet on it.
It's HUGE for teenagers to get hooked up with a girlfriend or boyfriend nowadays.
It makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside and at times you act a little love sick and crazy.
The feeling of somebody else in love with you, worshiping the ground you walk on and treating you special every minute of the day is awesome.
Shortly after the period where teens gave their relationship the usual test drive, to see if things would work out, you both grow closer together as a couple and life was so sweet.
Hanging out together, showing each other off to your friends, life is all good.
As time moves on, the relationship suffers a few minor problems, a few ups and downs and the warm fuzzy, love sick feelings start to chill out and fade away.
However as the couples get more use to each other, the relationship for the long term, becomes more stable, staunch and long lasting.
But on the darker side of a relationship, if things get pretty bad and everything goes pear shaped and cross eyed, despite the fact you love your partner or visa - versa and one of you don't feel the romance any longer, there's nothing you can do to make them feel the romantic connection ever again.
To make a relationship last for years, both people will need to work at it with dedication and true commitment.
If at some stage the relationship isn't happening, talk to your partner about it, unless your partner is psychic, they can't read your mind, so speak up.
You'll feel better, you got it off your chest and its been brought to their attention.
The most important thing is that you both share your opinions and don't hold back.
Stay focused on the issues at hand, delving in the past on what use to happen in the relationship and is no longer happening anymore, won't cut it, you'll probably kill the conversation and start an argument, so stick to whats happening right now.
Keep it real, some people appreciate the honesty.
Sometimes the down side to saving your relationship is you may have to consider that the best thing for the both of you is to remain as friends rather than a romantic pair.
The thing is you'll still save the friendship, just not the way you planned.
So if the relationships looks as though its heading over a steep cliff, do yourself a favor and set your partner free, stop sharing your love with everyone else and use whats left on yourself.
Looking after number one maybe the doctors prognosis for your situation.
Above all stay positive, keep your chin up, dust yourself off and move on.
We're all unique, what you may think, do and say, defines you as a person.
This relationships not going to be your last.
Always be yourself, don't be someone your not, just to make someone love you.
That's wrong, it will all turn to custard and in time you might realize that your partner is in love with the FAKE YOU and not the REAL YOU.
Long term relationships can last for years and that's because those happy couples know the secret, its communication, communication, communication.
By expressing your feelings and thoughts to your loved one, couples will increase their trust, intensify their love for each other and create the strongest bonds, that will last a entire lifetime.
Be true to who you are, should the person your with now isn't the person for you, that's cool.
Don't stress, you tried everything you could to make the relationship work.
Just remember that, that special someone is out there, somewhere, you''ll find them and when you do, they will love you for who you are for an entire lifetime, and the words - "save my relationship", will never cross your mind ever again, you can bet on it.
