Talking About Your Stress
Are you stressed? Do you feel bad, angry or annoyed about anything? Do you want to fix everything, but you don't know how to do it? If so, here's a solution for you: you have to communicate with others and try to find a solution to your problems together.
You can't just pick people at random, talk to them and hope it will help. In some situations this may cause more problems than it solves. In case of work-related problems for example, you should rather discuss them with your boss rather than with your fellow employees. They will then spread information about your problems in a form of a gossip and this is simply begging for trouble.
There's also one good way of getting rid of troubles at work: take a short break in order to relax and get some distance between you and the problem. When the stress level is too high, you often need a few days off to rebuild your forces before you get back to fight. If that doesn't help, consider a career change.
However, do not try to "take a few days off" in case of relationship or family problems. Then, the only possible solution that will let you cope with stress caused by relationship problems is meeting the problem head-on. Contact everyone involved and discuss the problem. This is the best way to fix the situation and get rid of the stress grown from family or relationship problems.
Another difficult situation is coping with stress in your romantic life. Stress often shows up if you get stuck in a routine and can't get out of it. If such thing happens, make sure to talk openly with the other person and make it clear (and we mean CLEAR) where your problems come from. Discuss your problem and in 99% of cases you will be able to solve it together and make your relationship even stronger. Sometimes however, such discussion may end in the increased distance between you and the other person - it happens when it is this other person who cause all the problems and decide to rather let you down than fix it. Even though, this situation will also be beneficial as the source of stress will go away.
Whatever you do, never let your emotions stay hidden for too long. Communicating with others about your stress if your only chance to relieve yourself of the burden you are carrying. Just talk only to those people who are involved in a situation - and don't be afraid to be frank. You will feel much better and your stress level will plummet.
You can't just pick people at random, talk to them and hope it will help. In some situations this may cause more problems than it solves. In case of work-related problems for example, you should rather discuss them with your boss rather than with your fellow employees. They will then spread information about your problems in a form of a gossip and this is simply begging for trouble.
There's also one good way of getting rid of troubles at work: take a short break in order to relax and get some distance between you and the problem. When the stress level is too high, you often need a few days off to rebuild your forces before you get back to fight. If that doesn't help, consider a career change.
However, do not try to "take a few days off" in case of relationship or family problems. Then, the only possible solution that will let you cope with stress caused by relationship problems is meeting the problem head-on. Contact everyone involved and discuss the problem. This is the best way to fix the situation and get rid of the stress grown from family or relationship problems.
Another difficult situation is coping with stress in your romantic life. Stress often shows up if you get stuck in a routine and can't get out of it. If such thing happens, make sure to talk openly with the other person and make it clear (and we mean CLEAR) where your problems come from. Discuss your problem and in 99% of cases you will be able to solve it together and make your relationship even stronger. Sometimes however, such discussion may end in the increased distance between you and the other person - it happens when it is this other person who cause all the problems and decide to rather let you down than fix it. Even though, this situation will also be beneficial as the source of stress will go away.
Whatever you do, never let your emotions stay hidden for too long. Communicating with others about your stress if your only chance to relieve yourself of the burden you are carrying. Just talk only to those people who are involved in a situation - and don't be afraid to be frank. You will feel much better and your stress level will plummet.
