If you're like most people, you don't handle rejection very well.
And if you've been dumped by your ex, there's a good chance that you're having great difficulty dealing with your emotions.
But did you also know that your highly emotional state could be causing you to exhibit a behavior that is going to kill any chance you have of getting your ex back in the future? We all have a tendency to want to control things after a traumatic experience.
We want to get things back on track - just the way they were.
Unfortunately, after you've been dumped, you have little say as to what happens.
The ball is in your ex's corner and they know they have complete control over the situation.
And this is where most people make their mistake.
They attempt to force the situation and control their ex when they should be controlling their own emotions.
You must realize that, at the end of the day, the only thing you truly have control over is yourself.
If you can make changes within, often times that which you crave (in this case, your ex) starts to make itself more available.
In other words, your ex won't be forced to come back to you - they have to want to.
Quite often, the attempt to control your ex is nothing more than your own insecurities surfacing.
So, although the situation may be extremely tense at the moment, try approaching it from another way.
Try changing things within yourself that may influence how your ex sees you.
This is much better than trying to directly change or control, your ex.
For those individuals who get this, there can, indeed, be a happy ending to a bad situation.
For those who opt to force the situation, things will end up deteriorating with each passing day.
Ultimately, that which you crave will slip through your fingers - and there's nothing you can do about it.