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Does Your Husband Get His Groove On Without You?

Do you suspect your husband or significant other of cheating?Do you check his wallet?His cellphone?Do you also check his underwear? Have you followed him after work, after he told you that he was going to be late coming home tonightI would suggest that you do all of these things before confronting him of having an affair.
Trust is important in a marriage.
but when that trust is in question, tempers rise and nerves are as fine as fiber optic cable lines.
Yet, even though you feel this man has wronged you, you hate him, yet love him still.
After all he is just a man.
Because bounded in his nature, infinite in his desires, man is a fallen god who has a recollection of heaven.
That man should stand erect and not be kept erect by others.
Mother-in-laws are guilty of this act of betrayal.
In their eyes, their son can do no wrong.
But what if he is cheating?The time will come to confront him.
Do not attempt this if your children are home.
Make sure you two are all alone.
Watch his body language.
Look dead in his eyes.
If he tries to flip the script and use reverse psychology, and starts to accuse you of cheating, then something is truly wrong.
Don't let him make you out to be the villain and he the victim.
Women fall for this oftentimes when they are afraid of giving the man an ultimatum.
I can't speak for any other woman, only for myself.
I know me.
I would not tolerate my husband's infidelity.
I would probably give him a second chance.
But a second chance would be it.
Because if he does it again, he's one egotistical fool who thinks I'll keep taking him back no matter how many times he's caught.
I believe that I'd be better offby myself than not having respect for myself and my spouse.
My mother once told me that men marry to make an end; women t make a beginning.
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Robertson believes; Marriage is not a union merely between two creatures-it is a union between two spirits; and the intention of that bond is to perfect the nature of both, by supplementing their deficiencies with the force of contrast, giving to each sex those excellencies in which it is naturally deficient; to the one, strength of character and firmness of moral will; to the other sympathy, meekness, tenderness; and just so solemn and glorious as these ends are for which the union was intended, just so terrible are the consequences if itbe perverted and abused; for there is no earthly relationship which has so much power to enoble and exalt.
There are two rocks, in this world of ours, on which the soul must either anchor or be wrecked--the one is God, and the other is the sex opposites.
So my position is this, if your husband is getting his groove on without you, let him know that you can get yours on, too.

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