Getting back together with your ex-girlfriend. Almost sounds like an impossible dream or fantasy, doesn't it? Well, it does not have to be. More than one guy out there has done something terribly stupid to lose his girlfriend and figured out the way to get back together with her. So, there should be nothing that is holding you back from trying to do the same. Where most guys go wrong is that they assume that they have no chance at all to get her back.

And that couldn't be further from the truth. If you want to get back together with your ex-girlfriend, here's what you NEED to do:

1. Make a decision. Don't stay in a world of fantasy where you dream about getting back together with her and do nothing at all to make it happen. If you want it to become reality, if you want to get your girlfriend back, then you have to pursue reconciling with her. You cannot just wish for it to happen.

2. Don't put any pressure on her to make a decision right away. If you do, she's going to say, NO. If you give her time to think about it, if you give her time to sort out some things, then you have a much better chance getting back together with your ex-girlfriend. You have to let her breathe.

3. Follow a plan to get her back and stick to it. The worst thing that you can do is go about getting back together with her without a plan. And if you find one, then you better use it. Otherwise, in the end, you will have no one to blame but yourself.