Recently single? Just been dumped? It hurts a lot! Not only are you lonely and depressed, but your ego is bruised and battered.
Well stop thinking about it! Do something about it! If you want your relationship to work out and really want your partner back then read on.
Here are a couple of tips on how to get from the breaking up to making up stage.
Firstly, you must have a clear emotional advantage over your ex.
How? You need to be able to control your emotions.
Does this sound impossible? You are about to learn how to get this advantage by using the understanding of human nature as your aid.
Keep these rules in mind as we proceed.
Human nature is stubborn and it always wants to have it's way.
I love myself more than I love anyone else.
Admit it or not, but this selfish behavior controls every subconscious part of our being.
Human nature is designed to make you want what you cannot have.
How often have you experienced craving something so badly just because it is rare? We take for granted what is just under our noses and give up everything we have for something we can't get.
Human nature likes to take control.
It is never a good idea to curtail ones freedom.
We want to be the boss.
We want to be the one in control rather than be the one being controlled.
Remember, these human principles are applicable to everybody.
You may not realize it yet but you can use it to your advantage.