Overcoming the Agony of Divorce - Your Future and Your Security Is Now in the Palms of Your Hands
Marriage does not come with a guarantee that married life is going to be tranquil and harmonious, nor will we always be laying on a bed of roses.
For sometimes, life throws us a curve ball and the unexpected occurs, and it can strike when we are living in the moment and are completely unprepared for the "what ifs" of tomorrow.
Divorce is never a pleasant situation to have to go through, even for those who can't wait to get rid of the dead weight or unfaithful cheaters who made their life a misery.
In some cases, there are couples who finally agree that the "match made in Heaven" has come to the end of the road in their marriage, perhaps due to irreconcilable differences, or simply because the couple fell out of love with one another.
Even the most 'fairytale marriage' is not immune to the shifts and changes of time and circumstance, the attraction and fire can dissipate, making them realize that they need more than "respect" and "mutual kindness or goodwill" to live happily ever after as man and wife.
What ever the reasons are behind the ending of a marriage, the dissolution of the relationship, even when accepted as necessary, can leave a painful mark on your heart and your spirit.
Just note, that a legal piece of paper does not a marriage make, and if the essential factors for enduring love and commitment aren't there, such as shared values and life goals, then the marriage relationship is going to suffer sooner or later.
However, for better or worse, when a divorce is imminent and it cannot be avoided, your life must go on! You can survive the ordeal and come out of it a better person, a stronger person and a wiser person because you didn't let the ordeal defeat you.
Divorce doesn't have to mean that you failed, or that your life is over.
Divorce can initiate a new beginning, a new season and a new and improved 'you', if you just let the broken relationship go.
The worse thing one can do to oneself is to hold on to something that cannot be mended.
In a marriage, it takes two to make it work; one person alone doing all the work to fix it is fighting a losing battle.
You are being defeated and all in the name of love.
Your future, your security and well being is now in the palms of your hands.
You are getting a second chance in life, love and happiness; and a divorce could be your ticket or lifeline to a successful and fulfilling future.
The following pages will show you how to lift yourself up and dust yourself off, showing you how to live again
For sometimes, life throws us a curve ball and the unexpected occurs, and it can strike when we are living in the moment and are completely unprepared for the "what ifs" of tomorrow.
Divorce is never a pleasant situation to have to go through, even for those who can't wait to get rid of the dead weight or unfaithful cheaters who made their life a misery.
In some cases, there are couples who finally agree that the "match made in Heaven" has come to the end of the road in their marriage, perhaps due to irreconcilable differences, or simply because the couple fell out of love with one another.
Even the most 'fairytale marriage' is not immune to the shifts and changes of time and circumstance, the attraction and fire can dissipate, making them realize that they need more than "respect" and "mutual kindness or goodwill" to live happily ever after as man and wife.
What ever the reasons are behind the ending of a marriage, the dissolution of the relationship, even when accepted as necessary, can leave a painful mark on your heart and your spirit.
Just note, that a legal piece of paper does not a marriage make, and if the essential factors for enduring love and commitment aren't there, such as shared values and life goals, then the marriage relationship is going to suffer sooner or later.
However, for better or worse, when a divorce is imminent and it cannot be avoided, your life must go on! You can survive the ordeal and come out of it a better person, a stronger person and a wiser person because you didn't let the ordeal defeat you.
Divorce doesn't have to mean that you failed, or that your life is over.
Divorce can initiate a new beginning, a new season and a new and improved 'you', if you just let the broken relationship go.
The worse thing one can do to oneself is to hold on to something that cannot be mended.
In a marriage, it takes two to make it work; one person alone doing all the work to fix it is fighting a losing battle.
You are being defeated and all in the name of love.
Your future, your security and well being is now in the palms of your hands.
You are getting a second chance in life, love and happiness; and a divorce could be your ticket or lifeline to a successful and fulfilling future.
The following pages will show you how to lift yourself up and dust yourself off, showing you how to live again
