Online Dating For Newbies
Remember that this is very different to conventional dating as you will be getting to know the person via the web rather than via a restaurant! Assuming you are new to this style of meeting new people, here are a few pointers to help get your message across in the most effective way.
Most people who are members of online dating websites are looking, like you, for a specific kind of individual to talk to.
They will have their likes and dislikes so don't be alarmed if they politely refuse a chat.
It's a numbers game but because the choice is so vast and by using the speed of the internet, you are able to cram loads of potential suitors into a short space of time.
Also be aware that unfortunately some of the profiles or images may not be true.
The first thing that people see is the profile.
This is where you need to be different from the rest by creating a punchy headline.
Boring headlines receive little traffic so if you want to get noticed, do some research first.
Look at the others and decide which ones make you laugh or are of interest.
Chances are that if you like it then others will.
Use a similar tag line but put your own spin on it.
Grammatical errors can be a real turn off.
There certainly is no excuse these days for making spelling mistakes either.
Use spell check on the computer and better still, ask a friend, whose opinion you respect, to read it for you and ensure there are no errors.
The profile section will ask you to complete an "express yourself" or "about me" box.
Do as before and research other interesting descriptions.
It's very important here not to just copy and paste another person's work.
Put the time in by outlining the person you are in your own words.
You'll find that it will flow naturally.
Don't post it yet though, sleep on it and come back to it tomorrow.
There may be something you want to add or what you thought was good yesterday now seems dull.
Once you successfully strike up a conversation with somebody else, again be creative and try to ask interesting questions.
The great attraction of this kind of dating is that should you find that neither of you have anything in common, politely refuse to continue and move onto the next one.
It's a lot easier than going to the movies every week and a lot cheaper.
Finally, don't make the mistake of meeting up in person too soon.
Take your time to get to know the person first.
If you feel that now is the time, then take a friend along for support and only meet at a place that you know well and other people frequent.
These days you can't be too careful.
Hopefully by following these tips, you will be able to enjoy the experience of online dating and increase your chances of meeting the right person.
Most people who are members of online dating websites are looking, like you, for a specific kind of individual to talk to.
They will have their likes and dislikes so don't be alarmed if they politely refuse a chat.
It's a numbers game but because the choice is so vast and by using the speed of the internet, you are able to cram loads of potential suitors into a short space of time.
Also be aware that unfortunately some of the profiles or images may not be true.
The first thing that people see is the profile.
This is where you need to be different from the rest by creating a punchy headline.
Boring headlines receive little traffic so if you want to get noticed, do some research first.
Look at the others and decide which ones make you laugh or are of interest.
Chances are that if you like it then others will.
Use a similar tag line but put your own spin on it.
Grammatical errors can be a real turn off.
There certainly is no excuse these days for making spelling mistakes either.
Use spell check on the computer and better still, ask a friend, whose opinion you respect, to read it for you and ensure there are no errors.
The profile section will ask you to complete an "express yourself" or "about me" box.
Do as before and research other interesting descriptions.
It's very important here not to just copy and paste another person's work.
Put the time in by outlining the person you are in your own words.
You'll find that it will flow naturally.
Don't post it yet though, sleep on it and come back to it tomorrow.
There may be something you want to add or what you thought was good yesterday now seems dull.
Once you successfully strike up a conversation with somebody else, again be creative and try to ask interesting questions.
The great attraction of this kind of dating is that should you find that neither of you have anything in common, politely refuse to continue and move onto the next one.
It's a lot easier than going to the movies every week and a lot cheaper.
Finally, don't make the mistake of meeting up in person too soon.
Take your time to get to know the person first.
If you feel that now is the time, then take a friend along for support and only meet at a place that you know well and other people frequent.
These days you can't be too careful.
Hopefully by following these tips, you will be able to enjoy the experience of online dating and increase your chances of meeting the right person.
