If your girlfriend leaves you it can be heartbreaking.
Often times they do not give you a proper reason why it ended and this can make it hard to come to terms with.
You become very emotional but most men are not completely comfortable sharing this with others so you can feel very isolated.
What most men do not consider is that it is possible to actually get back with your ex girlfriend and it does not have to be that hard to do.
The men that do try to get their ex back usually do it in all the wrong ways.
It is typical that they call and text constantly and send flowers.
They also give an outpouring of emotion and beg to be taken back.
This is exactly the wrong thing to do as it completely validates the decision the women has taken.
She then feels comfortable that she was right and is glad she put an end to it.
It shows that when things got tough you cracked and lost all your dignity and masculinity.
So knowing what you should not do, what is the best course of action? Initially it is important that you give each other some space.
You need to get some perspective and you cannot get this while you are still speaking regularly.
It is during this time you should be considering why the relationship broke up.
There will no doubt have been a number of things that led to the break up and if you know what they were you can work on building a situation where these things do not occur.