Don"t Keep Your Partner in the Dark About ED
Since Boston Medical Group has treated more patients with erectile dysfunction than just about anyone, it is understandable that they know just about everything there is to know about how the affliction can affect a relationship.
Since Boston Medical Group has treated more patients with erectile dysfunction than just about anyone, it is understandable that they know just about everything there is to know about how the affliction can affect a relationship.
After all, discovering ED in oneself generally comes as a result of the inability to gain and maintain erection in a sexual situation, and often that involves what happens with a partner. There is a pretty good chance that at some point, one of the two people in that relationship is going to be embarrassed, and the other is going to be left virtually in the dark. For example, if you were in a relationship with someone who is not achieving what you would expect sexually, there are all kinds of thoughts that might go through your mind. Some people will ask themselves "Is it me?" quicker than others might.
In that case, there is a lot of self-doubt that has its effect on the half of the relationship that doesn't even have the problem. It could turn into a situation where anger comes to the surface. That's because some people are intent on NOT blaming themselves, and shifting that blame to the partner, as a way of what psychologists might call "projection." Then there are those who might suspect that there is indeed a problem with erectile dysfunction, and may be hesitant about bringing that subject up with the partner. This is a very delicate matter, and even if there is some genuine concern on the part of the sexual partner of the person possibly afflicted with ED, it could be something that is awkward to talk about. Certainly, a lot of people will tell you to hit the problem head-on, but that is something easier said than done.
Boston Medical Group obviously does not advocate playing the "blame game," but does not advise silence either. The best solution is simply to open up lines of communication. Find a relaxed atmosphere to discuss what needs to be discussed. If you are the partner, it is important that there is nothing inherently wrong with either of you, but that there may be a physical or psychological barrier that could be in the way, and that it is something that can be overcome. No one needs to be angry or feel hopeless about anything, but if a real problem exists, the best course of action is to agree that professionals are best left to diagnose it and treat it from there. That's why it is critical to contact the acknowledged experts in this field, at Boston Medical Group. They are easy enough to get hold of, at 21 locations throughout the United States.
Since Boston Medical Group has treated more patients with erectile dysfunction than just about anyone, it is understandable that they know just about everything there is to know about how the affliction can affect a relationship.
After all, discovering ED in oneself generally comes as a result of the inability to gain and maintain erection in a sexual situation, and often that involves what happens with a partner. There is a pretty good chance that at some point, one of the two people in that relationship is going to be embarrassed, and the other is going to be left virtually in the dark. For example, if you were in a relationship with someone who is not achieving what you would expect sexually, there are all kinds of thoughts that might go through your mind. Some people will ask themselves "Is it me?" quicker than others might.
In that case, there is a lot of self-doubt that has its effect on the half of the relationship that doesn't even have the problem. It could turn into a situation where anger comes to the surface. That's because some people are intent on NOT blaming themselves, and shifting that blame to the partner, as a way of what psychologists might call "projection." Then there are those who might suspect that there is indeed a problem with erectile dysfunction, and may be hesitant about bringing that subject up with the partner. This is a very delicate matter, and even if there is some genuine concern on the part of the sexual partner of the person possibly afflicted with ED, it could be something that is awkward to talk about. Certainly, a lot of people will tell you to hit the problem head-on, but that is something easier said than done.
Boston Medical Group obviously does not advocate playing the "blame game," but does not advise silence either. The best solution is simply to open up lines of communication. Find a relaxed atmosphere to discuss what needs to be discussed. If you are the partner, it is important that there is nothing inherently wrong with either of you, but that there may be a physical or psychological barrier that could be in the way, and that it is something that can be overcome. No one needs to be angry or feel hopeless about anything, but if a real problem exists, the best course of action is to agree that professionals are best left to diagnose it and treat it from there. That's why it is critical to contact the acknowledged experts in this field, at Boston Medical Group. They are easy enough to get hold of, at 21 locations throughout the United States.