Here's the case, you've finally made your ex agree to a meeting after your breakup or maybe they've personally asked you out. In both cases, do you know what to do?

If you're like most people, you're probably still angry. Maybe a bit nervous but excited. It's natural, a break up is painful. However, if you agree, then it means that you still want to get back with your ex.

So here's some advice on what you should do in your first post break up meeting.

1. Do it in a coffee shop or some public place where both of you can talk clearly and easily
2. Don't express strong emotions during the first meet up. Be as much self-composed as possible.
3. If you want to get them back, you must show that you've finally recovered from the break up. Show confidence but don't tell them that you don't want them anymore. You're confidence must express that you can live without them in your life but don't say it straight to their face. You want to attract them and not turn them away.

Don't display too much affection for your ex. Specially if you're a woman, they might take advantage and just get you for the physical contact. Remember you're not their toy.

Before you agree to your first post breakup meeting, be sure that you've managed to calm yourself already and released the strong emotions during the break up. This will keep you level minded during the meeting. After the meeting, decide whether to take them back or not.

If you've decided to get your ex back then listen carefully.

Plan it as soon as possible, your ex is not going to be around forever...They will eventually going to find somebody else and they are going to hook up with them...They are going to fall in love, they are going to have sex...so on and so forth...