Things I Have Learned From Girlfriends Who Have Left Me
Honestly, I have been dumped a number of times, say three times in my life.
The conditions surrounding each of them and the cause of the break up were totally unique and different.
I decided to make it a learning process for me and now these are the things I learnt each time I was dumped.
It Takes Two The pains and frustration associated with break ups, most times compels us to put all the blames on the other person.
But when we critically analyze the issue, it will come to our notice that we also had some role we played that resulted in the break up.
If a problem arises in a relationship, the people involved should accept responsibility and find a way to address them.
Give Women Some Breathing Space For a relationship to strive, trust is one of the major tools involved.
Men are possessive by nature and would like to know where their women are and what they are doing at any particular point in time.
This instinct becomes stronger if you have been cheated before.
When you become too possessive, you are telling her you don't trust her which will not be a welcome development to any growing relationship.
As Time Goes On You Become Better And Stronger Time, they say heals all pain.
Always consider each break up as a learning process and not the end of the world.
Bear this in mind "that which doesn't kill me can only make me stronger.
" It Might Be That We Are Not Meant For Each Other You found each other and fell in love.
You dated for some time and thought it wise to enter into a relationship.
Probably you had considered marriage as a possibility.
Then suddenly she broke up with you.
You were devastated, but come to think of it, this might be a blessing in disguise because it is better off ending a relationship that wasn't meant to be earlier than latter.
Accepting this fact is the first step in the healing process.
If You Want Good Things, Then Make Them Happen.
You can't control what happened, but you have control over how you react to what happened.
Go for what you want, if you work hard you will achieve it.
Re-adjust yourself, put on your sit belt, move one and meet other women.
I bet you will be better off if you do everything stated in this article.
Good luck!
The conditions surrounding each of them and the cause of the break up were totally unique and different.
I decided to make it a learning process for me and now these are the things I learnt each time I was dumped.
It Takes Two The pains and frustration associated with break ups, most times compels us to put all the blames on the other person.
But when we critically analyze the issue, it will come to our notice that we also had some role we played that resulted in the break up.
If a problem arises in a relationship, the people involved should accept responsibility and find a way to address them.
Give Women Some Breathing Space For a relationship to strive, trust is one of the major tools involved.
Men are possessive by nature and would like to know where their women are and what they are doing at any particular point in time.
This instinct becomes stronger if you have been cheated before.
When you become too possessive, you are telling her you don't trust her which will not be a welcome development to any growing relationship.
As Time Goes On You Become Better And Stronger Time, they say heals all pain.
Always consider each break up as a learning process and not the end of the world.
Bear this in mind "that which doesn't kill me can only make me stronger.
" It Might Be That We Are Not Meant For Each Other You found each other and fell in love.
You dated for some time and thought it wise to enter into a relationship.
Probably you had considered marriage as a possibility.
Then suddenly she broke up with you.
You were devastated, but come to think of it, this might be a blessing in disguise because it is better off ending a relationship that wasn't meant to be earlier than latter.
Accepting this fact is the first step in the healing process.
If You Want Good Things, Then Make Them Happen.
You can't control what happened, but you have control over how you react to what happened.
Go for what you want, if you work hard you will achieve it.
Re-adjust yourself, put on your sit belt, move one and meet other women.
I bet you will be better off if you do everything stated in this article.
Good luck!
