What Can I Do to Win My Wife Back? How to Bridge the Gap and Cement the Relationship!
You have realized your mistakes and want to make amends.
However your estranged wife is not so sure that you have turned over a new leaf and wants nothing to do with you.
Here are ways in which you can make her believe that you have indeed changed for the better and that you want her back.
Get talking to her again Without being too brash and bullying, become friends again.
Be nonthreatening and friendly enough for her to see that there is a change in you.
Start communicating in a gentle and chivalrous way.
Be polite and warm without being too obvious.
Don't push you luck and assume that she is missing you till you see the signs.
Let her see how you have changed She has been hurt in the past and you have not given her enough reason to believe that you can be different.
This is why she has to see with her own eyes that you have made certain changes in your life.
Don't try to rush things.
These things will take its time.
She has to learn to trust you all over again so you will have to persevere and make sure you don't slip up.
Don't try to push your luck If you think you can barge into her life without any problem - think again! What make you think you can push your way into her life? You will obviously have to prove yourself and this can only happen if you are genuine and true about your feelings and your intentions.
Be gentle and patient with her and she will soon notice the difference in you.
Don't try to make her jealous Many men think that if they date another woman then their wife will get jealous enough to start chasing him again.
Unfortunately this does not really work because every wife wants to believe that her husband will stay faithful and true - no matter what! The sight of him fooling around with another woman will only serve to make her feel that the separation is a good thing.
If you love her you will be ready to make sacrifices for her Once you have decided to win her back you have to be prepared to make sacrifices and do whatever is needed to convince her that coming back to you is the best thing.
Are you ready to eat humble pie, accept your faults and even do without just so that she knows that you really love her? If the answer to that is yes - you have a good chance of getting her back.
Show her that you are willing to take responsibility Many times a marriage fails because one or the other spouse is unable or unwilling to take responsibility! No woman wants to be tied down to a man who is unable to face and shoulder the responsibilities that will surely come with marriage and family.
Show her that you are more than willing and she will have a change of heart.
Stop dating and flirting If you are still dating other women and have not been able to get rid of your habit of flirting then you are taking a risk! There is no way you will be able to get your wife back if you still have issues and problems regarding fidelity.
Change in this area and your chances will double.
However your estranged wife is not so sure that you have turned over a new leaf and wants nothing to do with you.
Here are ways in which you can make her believe that you have indeed changed for the better and that you want her back.
Get talking to her again Without being too brash and bullying, become friends again.
Be nonthreatening and friendly enough for her to see that there is a change in you.
Start communicating in a gentle and chivalrous way.
Be polite and warm without being too obvious.
Don't push you luck and assume that she is missing you till you see the signs.
Let her see how you have changed She has been hurt in the past and you have not given her enough reason to believe that you can be different.
This is why she has to see with her own eyes that you have made certain changes in your life.
Don't try to rush things.
These things will take its time.
She has to learn to trust you all over again so you will have to persevere and make sure you don't slip up.
Don't try to push your luck If you think you can barge into her life without any problem - think again! What make you think you can push your way into her life? You will obviously have to prove yourself and this can only happen if you are genuine and true about your feelings and your intentions.
Be gentle and patient with her and she will soon notice the difference in you.
Don't try to make her jealous Many men think that if they date another woman then their wife will get jealous enough to start chasing him again.
Unfortunately this does not really work because every wife wants to believe that her husband will stay faithful and true - no matter what! The sight of him fooling around with another woman will only serve to make her feel that the separation is a good thing.
If you love her you will be ready to make sacrifices for her Once you have decided to win her back you have to be prepared to make sacrifices and do whatever is needed to convince her that coming back to you is the best thing.
Are you ready to eat humble pie, accept your faults and even do without just so that she knows that you really love her? If the answer to that is yes - you have a good chance of getting her back.
Show her that you are willing to take responsibility Many times a marriage fails because one or the other spouse is unable or unwilling to take responsibility! No woman wants to be tied down to a man who is unable to face and shoulder the responsibilities that will surely come with marriage and family.
Show her that you are more than willing and she will have a change of heart.
Stop dating and flirting If you are still dating other women and have not been able to get rid of your habit of flirting then you are taking a risk! There is no way you will be able to get your wife back if you still have issues and problems regarding fidelity.
Change in this area and your chances will double.
