Feeling Stuck.. Best Ways To Mold Your Personal Success!
Have you ever felt stuck in your life and your career? Have you felt that you are surrounded by the things you do not need in life? Have you felt that you are stuck and you have nowhere to go?
How about being stuck in your goals and your dreams? I was at my favorite book store on Saturday night with my husband and every week I make a commitment to get a new book and start reading in the book store and if I like it I would buy it. I even got bookstore membership to save on my books and my coffee and here I am walking down the isle of new books and see this book with a big bee on the cover and it says "Stuck" so I got it. It is about being literally stuck in your life: your relationships, your work, your marriage and even your hobbies. It gave me an idea of what I wanted to share with you today.
Today is a great day to relax and think about our upcoming week. Do we want to feel stuck again?
Do we want to move forward in our lives? Why do we allow ourselves being stuck? What keeps us from moving forward? Fear of what? Success, changes or failure?
Over the past few years I saw that people are more afraid of being successful! Can you believe that? That is true. People do not know who they can become and what will it do to their life. They are scared to death of being successful, but actually scared of responsibilities that come with their success. They plant that negative seed instead of focusing on joys it can bring to them and people that surround them. I am here to show you a few tips on how to mold your personal success.
First I think the most important task we have is to be clear about what we want in life.
Secondly we must understand that it takes zero time to get from feeling stuck to feeling free. Your feeling of freedom is from your mindset. You can make that decision NOW and put those feelings in the dark closet. It is about making your decision and stop finding excuses and analyzing things until you get blue in the face.
Third, getting rid of things you do not need that clutter in your relationships, your mindset, your business is like removing the nasty plug in the sink that prevents the water flow. Once it is removed everything starts flowing like it should. Sometimes we have to get rid of relationships with people we do not want to associate with. Just find new people to surround yourself with more positive attitude and open to your ideas and who can bring value in your life. We all want to have a fresh start in life especially with New Year resolutions but honestly we can have that fresh start any time and not on New Year Night after a glass of champagne when we are subject ourselves to emotions.
Fourth, we must believe in our own abilities. My good friend Sandy has written two books and found publishers and even has cool movie plans in action. She did it on her OWN when she let go of her fears and past programming. She saw her patterns of failure and corrected them and created patterns of success. We so often become needy and rely on success of others to help us but we must remember it is their success we are relying upon and not ours.
Fifth, the most important factor is being YOU. Believe you have an inside beauty. Believe it is YOU who can make it happen every day. Be YOU TODAY.
Do not let other mold you but you mold yourself. You know your formula for success. It is inside of you! You were born with it. Be passionate about what you do. Enjoy your life. Get rid of things that do not bring your happiness!
How about being stuck in your goals and your dreams? I was at my favorite book store on Saturday night with my husband and every week I make a commitment to get a new book and start reading in the book store and if I like it I would buy it. I even got bookstore membership to save on my books and my coffee and here I am walking down the isle of new books and see this book with a big bee on the cover and it says "Stuck" so I got it. It is about being literally stuck in your life: your relationships, your work, your marriage and even your hobbies. It gave me an idea of what I wanted to share with you today.
Today is a great day to relax and think about our upcoming week. Do we want to feel stuck again?
Do we want to move forward in our lives? Why do we allow ourselves being stuck? What keeps us from moving forward? Fear of what? Success, changes or failure?
Over the past few years I saw that people are more afraid of being successful! Can you believe that? That is true. People do not know who they can become and what will it do to their life. They are scared to death of being successful, but actually scared of responsibilities that come with their success. They plant that negative seed instead of focusing on joys it can bring to them and people that surround them. I am here to show you a few tips on how to mold your personal success.
First I think the most important task we have is to be clear about what we want in life.
Secondly we must understand that it takes zero time to get from feeling stuck to feeling free. Your feeling of freedom is from your mindset. You can make that decision NOW and put those feelings in the dark closet. It is about making your decision and stop finding excuses and analyzing things until you get blue in the face.
Third, getting rid of things you do not need that clutter in your relationships, your mindset, your business is like removing the nasty plug in the sink that prevents the water flow. Once it is removed everything starts flowing like it should. Sometimes we have to get rid of relationships with people we do not want to associate with. Just find new people to surround yourself with more positive attitude and open to your ideas and who can bring value in your life. We all want to have a fresh start in life especially with New Year resolutions but honestly we can have that fresh start any time and not on New Year Night after a glass of champagne when we are subject ourselves to emotions.
Fourth, we must believe in our own abilities. My good friend Sandy has written two books and found publishers and even has cool movie plans in action. She did it on her OWN when she let go of her fears and past programming. She saw her patterns of failure and corrected them and created patterns of success. We so often become needy and rely on success of others to help us but we must remember it is their success we are relying upon and not ours.
Fifth, the most important factor is being YOU. Believe you have an inside beauty. Believe it is YOU who can make it happen every day. Be YOU TODAY.
Do not let other mold you but you mold yourself. You know your formula for success. It is inside of you! You were born with it. Be passionate about what you do. Enjoy your life. Get rid of things that do not bring your happiness!