Having the Man Fall in Love With You
Why do some men fall in love - while others don't? What does it take to get these men to notice? Why does it seem not matter what effort you put into getting him to notice you, you go unnoticed? Did you miss something in the Men 101 class? Or is it just hopeless? There are ways to make a man fall in love with you and for the purpose of love, read on.
Many men often times don't distinguish between love and lust.
In reality, they may and want to be in love, but actually it is lust that they are experiencing.
Physical beauty contributes to the man taking notice of the woman.
However, it is not always the outer beauty that attracts and holds the man.
Attraction due to physical beauty often results in an attraction due to lust.
Even though lust may be what attracts the man, it won't make the man stay head over heels in love with you.
If it were as easy as it is to fall in love and stay in love, as it is to fall in physical attraction, we would have a wonderful life.
All we would need would be our womanly charm, our bodies and a sexy personality to show off what only a woman possesses.
But love and lust are different, and what may appear to be love dwindles.
And, our hearts are broken, and we need much more than our body and stunning looks to get to the emotion level that truly makes him fall in love with you.
It is important to get to know the man.
Without getting to know the man, you can't "work" the man.
This means finding his vulnerable spots.
Men are easily excitable and once you know how to spark his inner emotions, it will be easier to make him fall in love with you.
Some women seem to naturally have the "gift" of making men fall head over heels in love with them.
However, for most of us, it is work.
Bring out the emotions by saying the right words, and supporting him with his interests- this will gain you a better chance of letting him equate the good feelings with you.
Start with being on his side, not only in the good times, but the bad as well, and he will love you for it.
Don't be overbearing.
Let him set the pace and don't rock the boat.
You are just starting to date this wonderful man and you are falling hard.
Don't smoother him.
You don't want to push him to feel the same things as you do.
Men don't wear their emotions on their sleeves.
They have an exterior that takes some time to get through to.
It takes longer for men to get out of the "getting to know you" stage.
Relax and take it slow.
Enjoy this new relationship and the time you share together and soon he will be ready to take it to the next level as well.
If you rush him or push him to feel something he may not be feeling you may lose him.
Enjoy the bliss, no matter how agonizing it may be when you feel you want to push to the next level.
Let the freshness live and carry you to the next stage of your relationship and let nature run its course.
Many men often times don't distinguish between love and lust.
In reality, they may and want to be in love, but actually it is lust that they are experiencing.
Physical beauty contributes to the man taking notice of the woman.
However, it is not always the outer beauty that attracts and holds the man.
Attraction due to physical beauty often results in an attraction due to lust.
Even though lust may be what attracts the man, it won't make the man stay head over heels in love with you.
If it were as easy as it is to fall in love and stay in love, as it is to fall in physical attraction, we would have a wonderful life.
All we would need would be our womanly charm, our bodies and a sexy personality to show off what only a woman possesses.
But love and lust are different, and what may appear to be love dwindles.
And, our hearts are broken, and we need much more than our body and stunning looks to get to the emotion level that truly makes him fall in love with you.
It is important to get to know the man.
Without getting to know the man, you can't "work" the man.
This means finding his vulnerable spots.
Men are easily excitable and once you know how to spark his inner emotions, it will be easier to make him fall in love with you.
Some women seem to naturally have the "gift" of making men fall head over heels in love with them.
However, for most of us, it is work.
Bring out the emotions by saying the right words, and supporting him with his interests- this will gain you a better chance of letting him equate the good feelings with you.
Start with being on his side, not only in the good times, but the bad as well, and he will love you for it.
Don't be overbearing.
Let him set the pace and don't rock the boat.
You are just starting to date this wonderful man and you are falling hard.
Don't smoother him.
You don't want to push him to feel the same things as you do.
Men don't wear their emotions on their sleeves.
They have an exterior that takes some time to get through to.
It takes longer for men to get out of the "getting to know you" stage.
Relax and take it slow.
Enjoy this new relationship and the time you share together and soon he will be ready to take it to the next level as well.
If you rush him or push him to feel something he may not be feeling you may lose him.
Enjoy the bliss, no matter how agonizing it may be when you feel you want to push to the next level.
Let the freshness live and carry you to the next stage of your relationship and let nature run its course.
