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Father of the Bride Toast - Get the Effect You Want From the Perfect Speech

Your little girl's all grown up and you want to tell her how proud you are.
A powerful father of the bride speech usually serves as a final "sendoff" and should instill the message that you are proud, and you are confident she's ready to face the world with her new husband.
There's a lot of pressure, and you want to get it right.
Here are some tips for getting the effect you want when delivering your father of the bride toast.
Forming Your Message Your speech should convey your positive approval of the marriage and help to build the confidence a new couple needs to successfully build a new life together.
Begin and end with "proud.
" Not literally, but work this message into your conclusion at the very least.
Drawing on the past is a great way to help build a connection with everyone listening.
Talk back to when your daughter was young, or to when she and her new husband started dating.
It is definitely alright to work humor into your speech, just make sure you show no ill-will or resentment.
If you can tell a great joke that still delivers a touching point, you'll strike gold.
Something like "If someone would have told me that that boy in a baggy Nirvana T-shirt would be marrying my daughter...
"
You know, that sort of thing! Delivery And Timing Delivery is just as key as content, or at least pretty close.
Make sure that you address everyone, but constantly let your gaze fall on the subjects of your statements.
If you're reflecting upon your daughter, glance at her, if you're asking someone "Do you remember when...
" look at them too.
Speak clearly and rehearse beforehand to put emphasis where you want it.
As far as timing, your speech should not hog the entire day, but be just enough to convey an impactful message that will stick with your audience.

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