Do You Want Your Ex to Come Back But Don"t Know What to Do? Here is What You Should Read Now
There are no such things as decent breakups.
Breakups are always bad.
One person goes through a lot of pain because he/she is being dumped and the other feels bad for making their partner go through this agony.
As the initial phase passes, your ex will begin to loose patience with you if you keep on harping about getting back together.
The more you call, the further he/she will go.
Consequently, you will be labeled as an insecure person with a lot of issues.
Well everyone has some type of issue or the other bothering him/her.
Here are a few ways of waking up your ex to reality: Pretend like he/she doesn't exist Ditch the "we can be friends" idea.
If you want your ex to value you then pretend like he/she doesn't exist.
Stop taking your ex's calls, be very cool if you bump into him/her and ignore most of what they say.
You have to make your ex feel that they cannot call you insecure and simultaneously use you as an emotional crutch.
Start making new friends Start going out with new people and develop a newer and more happening social circle.
Make your ex wonder how you can become so popular with others.
It would also help if most of the members in this group are of the opposite sex.
You do want your ex to be thinking of the possibilities of you hooking up with someone else don't you? Change your attitude Physical appearance definitely gives a tremendous boost to attitude change.
This is the perfect time to go in for a drastic makeover.
Look like a million bucks and feel all the attention on you.
Now how can an insecure person get so much attention? Let this question fester in your ex's mind.
You don't have to answer that! Don't put your life on hold Now that you are single, you don't have to put your life on hold and keep waiting for your ex.
At least your ex has to feel this way.
So, now, after a point, start going out on dates.
If you are in a party let potential dates approach you or vice versa.
Your ex has to see that you are moving on in life in a far more confident and organized manner than what he/she had thought.
As they see you moving further away from them, they will realize the extent of their mistake and will try and get back with you again.
And this time it will be after they realize what you are worth!
Breakups are always bad.
One person goes through a lot of pain because he/she is being dumped and the other feels bad for making their partner go through this agony.
As the initial phase passes, your ex will begin to loose patience with you if you keep on harping about getting back together.
The more you call, the further he/she will go.
Consequently, you will be labeled as an insecure person with a lot of issues.
Well everyone has some type of issue or the other bothering him/her.
Here are a few ways of waking up your ex to reality: Pretend like he/she doesn't exist Ditch the "we can be friends" idea.
If you want your ex to value you then pretend like he/she doesn't exist.
Stop taking your ex's calls, be very cool if you bump into him/her and ignore most of what they say.
You have to make your ex feel that they cannot call you insecure and simultaneously use you as an emotional crutch.
Start making new friends Start going out with new people and develop a newer and more happening social circle.
Make your ex wonder how you can become so popular with others.
It would also help if most of the members in this group are of the opposite sex.
You do want your ex to be thinking of the possibilities of you hooking up with someone else don't you? Change your attitude Physical appearance definitely gives a tremendous boost to attitude change.
This is the perfect time to go in for a drastic makeover.
Look like a million bucks and feel all the attention on you.
Now how can an insecure person get so much attention? Let this question fester in your ex's mind.
You don't have to answer that! Don't put your life on hold Now that you are single, you don't have to put your life on hold and keep waiting for your ex.
At least your ex has to feel this way.
So, now, after a point, start going out on dates.
If you are in a party let potential dates approach you or vice versa.
Your ex has to see that you are moving on in life in a far more confident and organized manner than what he/she had thought.
As they see you moving further away from them, they will realize the extent of their mistake and will try and get back with you again.
And this time it will be after they realize what you are worth!
