I'm sure that all of us would like to go through a breakup and not have it be one of the more traumatic events in our life.
The unfortunate thing is, many times these breakups don't occur on a whim and there is something that is brewing in the background, which causes them to eventually fall apart to the point where they break.
Many times, the actual event, which can be traced to the breakup, is only the straw that broke the camel's back, not the entire weight that has been on it over the course of time.
When you find yourself in the middle of a disastrous breakup, there are a few things that can be done which may help to mend the situation.
Even if it doesn't help you to get back with your ex, in many cases it may give you closure and help you to get on with your life again.
More often than not, however, you're going to find that by following the advice that I'm about to give you, you will be able to get back in the relationship again and have it be stronger than ever.
Just remember, there is nothing that can ever permanently break a relationship unless both parties allow it to do so.
Instead of looking at the events, which may be blamed for the breakup, try looking back to a time whenever the two of you were happier with each other.
There was probably something that started to occur at that time which made the two of you begin to grow apart.
If you are able to recognize what that problem was and to get rid of it from your life, you stand a better chance of gaining your ex back and overcoming a serious breakup.