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Discover How to Make Your Wife Love You Again - 3 Ways to Win Her Back, and Make Her Want to Stay

The two of you had a good marriage.
You never knew anything was wrong.
All of a sudden, your wife wants out of the marriage.
What happened? If she said she just doesn't love you anymore, or that her feelings have changed, you can turn those feelings around.
Discover how to make your wife love you again...
First and foremost - DON'T PANIC! When you panic, you can't think.
All you can think about is making her stay.
You'll start to beg, plead, cry, and possible threaten her.
All of these things will make her want to leave even more, and you know that.
Have you tried to talk to her about this? Ask her what is wrong - why, all of a sudden, she feels this way? Maybe things have been building up in your marriage, and you never noticed anything was wrong.
She never said anything, hoping you would see what she did.
This does happen a lot.
When a couple doesn't talk to each other, signals get crossed.
Have you been spending a lot of time at work lately? If she's been left alone a lot, she misses your company.
You're her husband - she needs you at home - with her - not at work all of the time.
Take a day off.
Even if you don't want to, or if you really need the money, your marriage is far more important - isn't it? Even one day can make such a difference that you won't believe it.
It will show her that you DO love her, you just wanted to make a better life for the both of you.
Talk to her - listen to her when she talks.
To most women, talking is the same as sex for most men.
Women consider talking (and being HEARD) the most important thing in a marriage.
Most men, on the other hand, consider sex as the most important thing.
When you want to know how to make your wife love you again, take a step back and try to see things from her eyes.
What is missing in your marriage? Does she feel like she can talk to you? And that you will genuinely listen to her? (That doesn't mean just saying yes or no when she pauses to catch her breath.
) If you have kids, is she becoming overwhelmed? You may not realize it, but taking care of kids is a tremendous job.
Even if she doesn't GO to work, she really does work constantly.
She may be feeling unappreciated.
She may think that you expect her to do everything.
If she thinks this way, try to do something for her.
Even the smallest thing, like taking the kids out for an hour, or helping with dinner or the dishes.
When you do, you will see the love in her eyes.
She will see that you do, indeed, love her - and care about how she feels.
Over time, marriages change.
A lot of things happen that can cause one spouse (or both spouses) to feel unwanted, or unattractive, or unloved.
Remember how it was in the beginning? When the two of you probably doted on each other? When all that mattered was that you were together? Where did those times go? We all lose those times as life passes.
Bring them back - even one will start to turn things around.

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