Falling in Love - The Way Men View Love
Are you falling in love with him, but don't know what move to make next? Has he touched your heart so profoundly, yet you can't seem to get the same reaction from him? Do you think you're destined to spend the rest of your life alone? Believe or not, a lot of men out there are looking for a deeply committed relationship.
If you want a guy to fall in love, and not just in lust, make sure there's more to love about you than just the sex.
Many make this mistake and it's hard to back up and work on the friendship aspect of a relationship once sex is allowed to get in the way.
It may seem old-fashioned in today's faced paced world of instant everything, but it is a point that should be given serious consideration.
There's also a tendency among women to put too much emotional importance into sexual contact.
While men are whispering in your ear, or touching you tenderly just to entice you to bed, you're more apt to read so much more into those acts.
Keep in mind that a man really does want to prove to you he's the one.
And even if you feel a strong attraction and want to simply give yourself to him, you, too, need to know that beyond his good looks, he is a man worthy of your deepest affection.
Not only will he feel validated knowing that he, above all others, won your heart, but you will know a lot about him, his integrity, his devotion and his capacity to love before jumping into a rushed commitment.
You also don't want to force emotions he may not yet feel.
If you're trying to get him to say those three little words, ask yourself why you're in such a rush.
If the guy shows interest in getting to know you better, if he's attentive and affectionate, why would you want to push for more? Ultimately, when he says I love you, don't you want it not come from his heart, not your insistence? A lot of this may stem from your own sense of insecurity.
You want to rid yourself of those annoying butterflies that persistently ask you 'does he or doesn't he feel anything for me?' These insecurities can also make some women defensive.
Suddenly they're feeling a need to prove themselves and, in turn, they criticize and put down the very guy they want a relationship with.
If you want him to fall in love with you, try keeping the pressure off, and keep fun communication open.
You don't want to shut him down by harping on what you think he should be doing, or feeling.
Building a relationship can be as easy as keeping dialogue fun and interesting.
Learn what you admire about him and find out what you may not like too much.
And don't be afraid to slowly show him who you are.
You're not a one-dimensional person and he should see the many facets of your personality, interests and life goals.
This time of discovery should be fun, so sit back and enjoy it.
Every time you leave each other, you want him to be left with the memory of how great it is being with you.
Have fun, and show your silly, goofy or intellectual side.
Discover your common interests, your visions of the future and let him see for himself how much he longs to be with you.
If you want a guy to fall in love, and not just in lust, make sure there's more to love about you than just the sex.
Many make this mistake and it's hard to back up and work on the friendship aspect of a relationship once sex is allowed to get in the way.
It may seem old-fashioned in today's faced paced world of instant everything, but it is a point that should be given serious consideration.
There's also a tendency among women to put too much emotional importance into sexual contact.
While men are whispering in your ear, or touching you tenderly just to entice you to bed, you're more apt to read so much more into those acts.
Keep in mind that a man really does want to prove to you he's the one.
And even if you feel a strong attraction and want to simply give yourself to him, you, too, need to know that beyond his good looks, he is a man worthy of your deepest affection.
Not only will he feel validated knowing that he, above all others, won your heart, but you will know a lot about him, his integrity, his devotion and his capacity to love before jumping into a rushed commitment.
You also don't want to force emotions he may not yet feel.
If you're trying to get him to say those three little words, ask yourself why you're in such a rush.
If the guy shows interest in getting to know you better, if he's attentive and affectionate, why would you want to push for more? Ultimately, when he says I love you, don't you want it not come from his heart, not your insistence? A lot of this may stem from your own sense of insecurity.
You want to rid yourself of those annoying butterflies that persistently ask you 'does he or doesn't he feel anything for me?' These insecurities can also make some women defensive.
Suddenly they're feeling a need to prove themselves and, in turn, they criticize and put down the very guy they want a relationship with.
If you want him to fall in love with you, try keeping the pressure off, and keep fun communication open.
You don't want to shut him down by harping on what you think he should be doing, or feeling.
Building a relationship can be as easy as keeping dialogue fun and interesting.
Learn what you admire about him and find out what you may not like too much.
And don't be afraid to slowly show him who you are.
You're not a one-dimensional person and he should see the many facets of your personality, interests and life goals.
This time of discovery should be fun, so sit back and enjoy it.
Every time you leave each other, you want him to be left with the memory of how great it is being with you.
Have fun, and show your silly, goofy or intellectual side.
Discover your common interests, your visions of the future and let him see for himself how much he longs to be with you.
