Coming home from war is one of the biggest battles for American Military Forces.
Often, the first reality for Military members actually starts on the flight bound for Home! This long flight from the Middle East is one of the most anxiety filled moments for military personnel.
While in flight, about a thousand thoughts are going through the mind.
There are many thoughts, but not limited to: What is life like at home? Will my spouse and kids be happy to see me? Will I still have a family, once I return? Do my kids remember me? Are my possessions still in tact? How much money was I able to save while deployed? Will my friends still accept me? Why did I make it back and my comrades did not? How will I explain my experiences in battle? Will I have to go back again? These are just a few that may be experienced, before returning home! This is primarily the first stage of stress that often occurs, during re-deployment from the War.
Often there are members, who when initially deployed had a spouse, but upon return found themselves without one! This was also true for me! Combat Veterans from all branches of service experience some form of anxiety, but have to continue to move forward in life.
Life does not stop for War! American Military Family Members are also put through the stresses, pressures and anxiety of multiple deployments and relocation of military spouses.
Adaptation becomes a virtue, in these types of situations! The truth is that, it is not easy! War has a long-term effect that never seems to go away.
I personally was changed forever! My way of thinking changed, the people that I talked to changed, and something simple as driving down the street turned into a constant look out for I.
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This is why reality can be a battle in itself for our Military Force and family members.