Self-Talk: Magic for Changing Your Mind
While I was watching a movie the other day, my attention got hooked on the soundtrack beneath the unfolding story and the way it created the scene's moods. Think about it: On the screen, your eyes see a typical street scene--people walking down the sidewalk, cars rolling past. Nothing in the picture itself gives you a clue whether the movie is going to be a comedy or thriller, a mystery or a light-hearted romance. Then the music starts, and right away you know exactly what kind of experience you're in for.
The soundtrack that shapes the way we respond to the scenes in the movie of our lives is the self-talk we play. The setting is meaningless until our internal music casts its spell. Tell yourself it's a fabulous day and that you're going to accomplish great things, and you find yourself meeting whatever comes your way with resourcefulness and strength. Tell yourself it's going to be a miserable day when nothing goes well, and sure enough, by late afternoon all you want to do is curl up in a corner away from it all.
More than any other factor, it's the self-talk we play that entrances us, that puts us in the state from which we respond to the events and people around us. And the good news is that we're our own DJs. We have the power to choose what tracks we'll play.
If you don't like the movie you're in, you need to play some different music. First you need to select what kind of music you want to hear. Then you have to learn how to install it into your brain's bioplayer.
To choose the music, all you have to do is decide what kind of mood you want to create. Something more upbeat and energetic? More peaceful and content? More creative or playful? List as many words as you can that describe the feelings you want to generate. A thesaurus can help you expand your selections.
Once you have a list of words that portray your preferred state, you have to burn them onto your bioplayer's media of choice. All bioplayers will play the three primary kinds of media, and we'll look at those three options in a minute. Experiment with each of them. You may like and want to use them all. Or you may find you have a definite preference for one over the other.
Of the three primary types of self-talk media, the most familiar is the affirmation. The other two are new-generation evolutions. The first of these is a trade-marked media called Afformations; the second is the "statements of choice". Regardless of which one you're formatting, keep in mind that you need to string your words together in the present tense for them to work. Using phrases that refer to the future (such as "will be" or "am becoming") will render them invalid.
To create affirmations, simply write a sentence that describes you in your desired condition. Most affirmations begin with phrases such as "I am...," "I enjoy...," "I love..." followed by the chosen descriptive word. "I enjoy being slim and fit" is a standard affirmation.
Afformations™ are based on the observation that the brain functions much like a search engine and will look for answers to any question you pose to it. Instead of stating "I am slim and fit," for example, you would write your program as "Why am I so slim and fit?" Your brain, the theory goes, will steer you into behaviors and circumstances that result in the condition you asked about. To use this media, just add the phrase "Why am I" in front of the result you desire.
The third media, statements of choice, overcomes a negative feedback problem that some bioplayers produce with affirmations. If you put an affirmation into your bioplayer and then hear a dis-affirmation echoing, such as "You are not" or "Yeah, sure" or even "You liar," statements of choice may be perfect for you. To program these, you simply insert the phrase "I now choose to be" in front of your descriptive words. "I now choose to be slim and fit" is a statement of choice.
Begin experimenting today. Find your preferred media, install your preferred state, and watch how magically your world transforms. It's your movie. Make the most of it.
The soundtrack that shapes the way we respond to the scenes in the movie of our lives is the self-talk we play. The setting is meaningless until our internal music casts its spell. Tell yourself it's a fabulous day and that you're going to accomplish great things, and you find yourself meeting whatever comes your way with resourcefulness and strength. Tell yourself it's going to be a miserable day when nothing goes well, and sure enough, by late afternoon all you want to do is curl up in a corner away from it all.
More than any other factor, it's the self-talk we play that entrances us, that puts us in the state from which we respond to the events and people around us. And the good news is that we're our own DJs. We have the power to choose what tracks we'll play.
If you don't like the movie you're in, you need to play some different music. First you need to select what kind of music you want to hear. Then you have to learn how to install it into your brain's bioplayer.
To choose the music, all you have to do is decide what kind of mood you want to create. Something more upbeat and energetic? More peaceful and content? More creative or playful? List as many words as you can that describe the feelings you want to generate. A thesaurus can help you expand your selections.
Once you have a list of words that portray your preferred state, you have to burn them onto your bioplayer's media of choice. All bioplayers will play the three primary kinds of media, and we'll look at those three options in a minute. Experiment with each of them. You may like and want to use them all. Or you may find you have a definite preference for one over the other.
Of the three primary types of self-talk media, the most familiar is the affirmation. The other two are new-generation evolutions. The first of these is a trade-marked media called Afformations; the second is the "statements of choice". Regardless of which one you're formatting, keep in mind that you need to string your words together in the present tense for them to work. Using phrases that refer to the future (such as "will be" or "am becoming") will render them invalid.
To create affirmations, simply write a sentence that describes you in your desired condition. Most affirmations begin with phrases such as "I am...," "I enjoy...," "I love..." followed by the chosen descriptive word. "I enjoy being slim and fit" is a standard affirmation.
Afformations™ are based on the observation that the brain functions much like a search engine and will look for answers to any question you pose to it. Instead of stating "I am slim and fit," for example, you would write your program as "Why am I so slim and fit?" Your brain, the theory goes, will steer you into behaviors and circumstances that result in the condition you asked about. To use this media, just add the phrase "Why am I" in front of the result you desire.
The third media, statements of choice, overcomes a negative feedback problem that some bioplayers produce with affirmations. If you put an affirmation into your bioplayer and then hear a dis-affirmation echoing, such as "You are not" or "Yeah, sure" or even "You liar," statements of choice may be perfect for you. To program these, you simply insert the phrase "I now choose to be" in front of your descriptive words. "I now choose to be slim and fit" is a statement of choice.
Begin experimenting today. Find your preferred media, install your preferred state, and watch how magically your world transforms. It's your movie. Make the most of it.
