How to Go to a High School Alumni Party
- 1). Learn information about the date, time, place and theme of the high school alumni party. It is the least you can do to have the situation somewhat under control. If it helps any, see which of your old friends are going as well. That way, you have a group of acquaintances to mingle with when you first arrive.
- 2). Dress appropriately and comfortably. Since you may not have made contact with many of your classmates for a number of years, the impression you give will be similar to a first impression. Your wardrobe can make or break it. Know ahead of time what you have to wear, especially for theme parties. Your outfit should be one that you love and look good in. When you feel confident about your looks, it will come out in your personality.
- 3). Greet everyone in a good-natured manner, even the people you disliked those many years back. People change, especially after going to college, working or having a family. All these circumstances have opened people's eyes to the world beyond high school. If there was ever a time to be immature, it was high school, so get any grudges out of your system before you step into the party. If some of your classmates still have not grown up, then don't worry about it. It just means that you've passed them by.
- 4). Keep your composure during the party. Do not make a scene, even if you still hold a grudge. Making civil conversation is always better than reopening an old wound. Perhaps you'll even find closure in the midst of the exchange.
- 5). Hang out with people outside your normal clique. That way you can make new friends while you're there. High school has lots of cliques, but there are great people in every group and you deserve to get to know as many as you can.
- 6). Be confident but don't overdo it. Conceit does not bode well with acquaintances or even friends and you may end up driving people away. Being happy with yourself and with your accomplishments will invite respect from people who see you as a person who has lived a good life.
- 7). Bring a camera. You may not see these people again for a long time. Even if you will, it is always good to have some tangible memories.
