Getting Your Ex Back - Don"t Offer Empty Promises Just to Have Another Chance at the Relationship
After your relationship fell apart, because of all the pain and hurt you are feeling, you are prepared to do absolutely anything to try getting your ex back after the break-up.
Although you might think that this is the right thing to do, it can actually have an adverse effect on your ex.
For instance, if you tell your ex that you will do anything to have him/her back in your life again, you really don't mean this sincerely, and he/she knows this.
You are not thinking clearly because of the trauma of the break-up, and will go to any lengths to get your ex back, without really thinking about what you are saying.
These empty promises will only have your ex thinking that you are saying all these things just to have another chance at the relationship, which in fact, is exactly what you are doing.
Another thing that you are doing is to make your ex even more determined to NOT get back together with you again.
You will be doing yourself and your ex a huge favor by leaving him/her alone, to get over all the hurt and anger first, before making an attempt at getting your ex back after the break-up.
The sensible thing to do is to sit down and think about what it is that you have done that has made your ex so angry with you, and then make a concerted effort to rectify that particular problem.
This will show your ex that you have indeed thought about the mistake you have made, are sincere when admitting that you know that it was you who are the problem, and are really prepared to do something about it.
This problem is more than likely an ongoing one, that is upsetting your ex, so the sensible way to go about this is to just stop doing it, and you will have a much better chance of getting your ex back after the break-up.
Although you might think that this is the right thing to do, it can actually have an adverse effect on your ex.
For instance, if you tell your ex that you will do anything to have him/her back in your life again, you really don't mean this sincerely, and he/she knows this.
You are not thinking clearly because of the trauma of the break-up, and will go to any lengths to get your ex back, without really thinking about what you are saying.
These empty promises will only have your ex thinking that you are saying all these things just to have another chance at the relationship, which in fact, is exactly what you are doing.
Another thing that you are doing is to make your ex even more determined to NOT get back together with you again.
You will be doing yourself and your ex a huge favor by leaving him/her alone, to get over all the hurt and anger first, before making an attempt at getting your ex back after the break-up.
The sensible thing to do is to sit down and think about what it is that you have done that has made your ex so angry with you, and then make a concerted effort to rectify that particular problem.
This will show your ex that you have indeed thought about the mistake you have made, are sincere when admitting that you know that it was you who are the problem, and are really prepared to do something about it.
This problem is more than likely an ongoing one, that is upsetting your ex, so the sensible way to go about this is to just stop doing it, and you will have a much better chance of getting your ex back after the break-up.
